Jumping into bed

[Ivan Pope <ivan@netnames.com>]

>Well, as I have observed elsewhere, it is a generally bad negotiationg
>strategy to first jump in bed, and then argue about who is going to be
>on top.
>
It's actually fairly normal during sex, in my experience. Not so much the
argument, but the tussle over position. Often many variations are tried
before something that suits both parties is found. Over time, things settle
down into a routine, but by then its got boring.
I have never had an argument or a discussion about who goes where before
jumping into bed, but I suppose it takes all kinds.
;-)
Ivan