Re: Jumping into bed

[Michael Sondow <msondow@iciiu.org>]

Ivan Pope a écrit:
> 
> >Well, as I have observed elsewhere, it is a generally bad negotiationg
> >strategy to first jump in bed, and then argue about who is going to be
> >on top.
> >
> It's actually fairly normal during sex, in my experience. Not so much the
> argument, but the tussle over position. Often many variations are tried
> before something that suits both parties is found. Over time, things settle
> down into a routine, but by then its got boring.
> I have never had an argument or a discussion about who goes where before
> jumping into bed, but I suppose it takes all kinds.

Yes, I've heard that some couples actually have prearranged days for who will be
where. You know: Monday, Wednesday, and Friday I'm on top, Tuesday, Thursday,
and Saturday it's your turn, and Sunday we do it...(etc.).

The English, I believe, are much given to these sorts of agreements ;-]